My partner and the father of my two kids has been smoking cannabis for over 20 years and to be honest it never really bothered me too much as it seemed to keep him calm but last week my house was raided last week and he was arrested with 200 euro's worth and my children had to see this and my nerves are still at me over it, I am so ashamed that I ever left him do it, he was not selling it or anything like that but smoking 150 to 200 euro worth a week but know the children and the whole neighbourhood know which has caused great destress so I have given him an ultimatem that he has to give up or go, he has stopped smoking it at home in back etc but sneaks off to his friends twice a day for several hours, says he is not smoking it but I know by looking at him that he is, what should I do, how can I help him , I feel bad for forcing him but I can't put my children at risk.
, I don't want to throw him out but can't allow it around my children, he has tried to give up in the past but has had severe mood swings, he also suffers from depression and has'nt worked in ten years which I think is because of the weed, your probably wondering why I am still with him and I wonder that everyday myself, please if anyone has advice I'd really appreciate it, I am at my wit's end
, I don't want to throw him out but can't allow it around my children, he has tried to give up in the past but has had severe mood swings, he also suffers from depression and has'nt worked in ten years which I think is because of the weed, your probably wondering why I am still with him and I wonder that everyday myself, please if anyone has advice I'd really appreciate it, I am at my wit's end
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