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Hi folks,

Just a quick note in regards to the moderation of the group. Sometimes if I am a bit short on time or if we get a lot of posts at once I may have to just skim the overall gist of the posts rather than reading them word for word before I approve them, also we all have a different perspective as to what is acceptable and thus there may sometimes be the odd post that gets through that you may feel is inappropriate. And while this doesn’t seem to happen very often if there is anything that anybody reads and feels is inappropriate then please feel free to either shoot me a PM or use the contact form to let me know and I will always be happy to take another look at it.

Please keep in mind however that a post does have to be quite bad or harmful to the group as a whole for us to delete it, I don’t like to be too heavy handed with that kind of moderation and try to reserve it for only when it is absolutely necessarily as generally I like people to be able to have their say and most things can be ironed out with dialogue and often we can all learn from it, that said if you feel something is inappropriate like I say please feel free to let me know and I will be happy to take another look.


All the best,

Cannabis Rehab Admin

If you wish to Use then Use, Your Body Your Choice, You're NOT a Criminal and I wish you well!

My Choice is to be Drug Rehabilitated for 15 years because I Chose to be free from its Control on me!
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  • Recently quit dope, bf still smokes dope

    marijuana withdrawal symptoms relief
    Hi all..

    Need some advice and would like to know if anyone else is in my situation. I quit smoking back in April, and my bf still smokes. He smokes around me constantly, I have talked to him so many times, I have tried to get him to stop but he has no interest in stopping. We seem to not have that connection anymore, I feel like im changing and he is stuck. What do you all think??

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    Hi dream a little dream and welcome to the forum.

    I can’t honestly say I have been in that particular situation in regards to a partner, but when I quit I did pretty much break all contact with those I used to smoke with, which is something that is supposedly recommended for the sake of recovery, however as you are now experiencing once you quit you can find that you grow apart naturally from those who you used to smoke with, it was bound to happen with the people I used to smoke with, not only was it something we spent most their time doing but half the time it was all we would talk about too, it really was like been in some kind of cult. And that’s the thing when you smoke it has an effect on so much of what you do and how you live your life, if you look at the cultural and lifestyle differences between those who smoke and those who don’t they can be pretty significant. So what you are experiencing may just be something that is an inevitable part of one partner been clean while another uses, it’s probably not a natural match and you may well continue to grow apart. The ideal solution would be if he was to stop too, but if like you say he has little interest in doing that then that’s probably not going to happen. It sounds like a tough one it really does, I for one am not telling you to leave him, I never feel comfortable in giving out that kind of advice, except in really extreme cases perhaps, as I always say whether or not you want to be with him is something you can only decide for yourself, but due to the nature of the situation it may well be one where what will happen will happen. Anyway I am not sure if it has but I hope that helps.

    Thanks for posting, take care and please keep us posted on how it goes.
    Cannabis Rehab Admin

    If you wish to Use then Use, Your Body Your Choice, You're NOT a Criminal and I wish you well!

    My Choice is to be Drug Rehabilitated for 15 years because I Chose to be free from its Control on me!

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      marijuana withdrawal symptoms relief
      I think your in a very tough situation. But to be honest, unless he is a very recreational pot smoker, I don't believe you will be able to connect with him in that way until he quits as well. If he is a heavy pot smoker, then try to remember how your mentality was when you were a heavy pot smoker. I hope that can help you. It may not be the answer you are looking for but I was in a similar situation, only my girlfriend quit and I kept smoking. And then I lied to her and smoked only at nights... and well.. it just got worse and we broke up. And now i'm finally quitting and realize too many things.

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