Just broke up with weed addict

[khandikane]

I too feel the pain. I love this man dearly, have spent the last 8 months or so walking on eggshells, whether he had any or not. He very abruptly cut me out of his life, as all he cares about at this point is the weed. I rarely even mentioned it, everyday hoping he would cut down enough to see how it was changing him. He has no friends, except the ones who call every few months that he can "pretend" to. I realize I am better off with out that stress in my life, but it is so hard to watch someone you had dreams of the future with seemingly go down. He got kicked out of school, turned down a fantastic job b/c they drug test, and has no friends, only his dealers and his parents, who have no idea as to the extent of his addiction. i had no idea someone could get addicted to weed, to the extent he has. it has become his first love, and it was only through forums like these and googling the drug addiction that I was able to even begin to understand the great lengths someone will go to to maintain an addiction. At least I felt some validation that I wasn't the terrible person he made me out to be. I will never be the same after this, as I said I love this man, and I worry about what will happen to him. I also worry that I am taking steps to move on with my life, but is it possible he reaches out to me when or if he hits rock bottom? Any suggestions?

[crazeddude]

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[khandikane]

yup, figures you people comment and have absolutely no idea what you are talking about, i am not lacking, we had a fantastic relationship. Who the hell are you to attack me, when all I want is for him to be o.k. What gives you the right? I am not against the drug at all, maybe you should try reading some info on addiction before you judge the person on the other side who watches someone throw away all the things that mattered to him. Although I guess I should say you should try looking at yourselves if you answer my post like that

[khandikane]

it's beacuse of people like you that other people don't believe they cabn get addicted, get some knowledge before you comment on someone so rudely

[Tina]

Just ignore them khandikane, they are just a bunch of pro drug idiot trolls who don’t know what they are talking about. You have had to put up with enough without taking sh*t from the likes of them. Nobody knows how hard it is to live with someone who has a drugs habit until they experience it.

With love

Tina

[Cannabis Rehab Guest]

The decision you had to make was obviously not an easy one and no one has the right to abuse you for it or tell you how to live your life. If your boyfriend wants to smoke the drug then fine that’s his right, but it’s also your right not to stay with him if you don’t want to. I am sure most people here understand, ignore the trolls who are only here to promote the use of drugs, thankfully there’s not many of them and the admin is very good at deleting their pro drug propaganda trash.

Peace

James

[Cannabis Rehab Guest]

Don’t listen to them you are not the one who is in the wrong, not saying that anybody is but especially not you. You have done your best don’t feel bad. Maybe now you have left him he might wake up and realize what drugs have costs him, you never know. I think you are really brave.

All the best

[Cannabis Rehab Guest]

Ignore the idiots... We support you...

[Cannabis Rehab Admin]

Marijuana Addiction Abuse

You are not a terrible person or the one who is in the wrong. He probably will need to hit rock bottom before he realises he has a problem, I am not sure that there is anything more you can do for him until then. You leaving him might be the wakeup call he needs, so fingers crossed. But if isn’t then you need to move on and get on with your life. We all can only be responsible for our own lives. You have our full support.

Be strong and lots of love.

[khandikane]

Thank you all, I was very upset at those other posts. I am very impressed at the response by admin and by all of you. It has been a horrible time and I wish nothing but the best for my bf, although he doesn't seem to know there is a prob, despite losing a great job offer, his second year of school, and a woman who would do anything for him. I don't know why he left the cell phone with me, but I guess I will never know. Thanks again, you have restored my faith in this very trying time.

[Cannabis Rehab Guest]

Most people wake up to the effect that drugs has had on their life eventually, the problem is sometimes it’s not until you have wasted so much of it that you do, I wish I got wise to it allot sooner than I did. You can’t be expected to wait around for him and waste yours.

[Cannabis Rehab Guest]

You've done the right thing. I have become more dependent on marijuana than the love of others in the past, bringing reality to him is the best. Move on and be happy.

[Kat]

Everyone has to do in life what they feel is right for them. You have done nothing wrong.

[jlb1924]

I too know what you are/went through as I am going throught the same but unfortunately have 3 young children.

I hope a good clean man (drug free) comes your way and you live the life you deserve.

You have made the right move as you dont want this man to bring you down or make your life a misery as you have a right to a happy life without drugs.

Although you love him dearly and it must be very hard, in time you will look back on this as the best thing you could have done.

Thoughts are with you!